The Story of Aboru, Aboye, and Abosise: A Lesson in Compassion and Divine Favor
Within the sacred teachings of Ifá, stories are more than tales from the past. They carry timeless wisdom that guides us through life’s challenges, relationships, and spiritual growth. One such story is that of Aboru, Aboye, and Abosise, three women whose kindness changed the course of destiny and became forever remembered in Ifá tradition.
Orunmila’s Time of Hardship
There was a time when Orunmila, the witness of destiny and custodian of divine wisdom, faced rejection and hardship. Many people turned away from him, judging him by his appearance and circumstances rather than recognizing the sacred power he carried.
As he traveled, weary and in need, most people refused to help him. Yet destiny had already prepared three women who would see beyond appearances.
The Compassion of Three Women
The women known as Aboru, Aboye, and Abosise welcomed Orunmila with kindness. They offered him food, shelter, care, and respect when others would not.
Their actions were not motivated by reward or recognition. They simply acted with good character (Iwa Pele) and compassion. Through their support, Orunmila regained his strength and continued the spiritual mission that lay before him.
Divine Reward
At the same time, a great problem troubled the household of Olofin. A difficult situation threatened the well-being of his family, and spiritual intervention was needed.
With renewed strength, Orunmila performed the necessary divination and spiritual work. The crisis was resolved, blessings were restored, and peace returned.
The kindness shown by Aboru, Aboye, and Abosise was not forgotten. Their names became associated with respect, acceptance, and the successful completion of sacred work within the Ifá tradition.
The Spiritual Meaning
- Never judge a person solely by their current condition.
- Good character opens the door to divine blessings.
- Acts of kindness can change the course of destiny.
- Those who help others during difficult times often become part of a greater spiritual purpose.
- Compassion is a form of spiritual power.
Why We Say “Aboru, Aboye, Abosise”
Today, practitioners of Ifá often greet one another with “Aboru, Aboye, Abosise”. These words represent acceptance, understanding, and the successful reception of spiritual blessings and prayers.
They remind us of the three women whose compassion helped restore balance and allowed destiny to unfold according to divine will.
Final Reflection
The story of Aboru, Aboye, and Abosise reminds us that true spiritual greatness is rooted not only in knowledge but also in kindness. Whether we are seeking guidance, offering support, or walking our own path, good character remains one of the highest teachings of Ifá.
When we act with compassion, patience, and integrity, we align ourselves with the wisdom of Orunmila and create space for blessings to manifest in our lives.

